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What Sicily and Etna Taught Me About Resilience

Living Beneath the Shadow

There is a particular frequency to a city living beneath the shadow of a giant.

When your skyline is dominated by Mount Etna — a restless, smoking titan that has existed for more than half a million years — you develop a different relationship with time itself.

You do not rush.

Why would you?

The volcano has seen empires rise and collapse. Your 10:00 a.m. coffee can wait another five minutes.

I arrived in Catania carrying the trained instincts of a man who spent a lifetime scanning horizons for danger — first in military intelligence and later in diplomatic security.

I come from the front line.

A world where resilience is not a motivational slogan printed on social media graphics by self-appointed “gurus” who panic when Wi-Fi disappears.

Resilience, in my world, was survival.

Over the years, much of my professional life became dedicated to exposing deception — false experts, manipulative personalities, and individuals selling “inner peace” like cheap souvenirs to emotionally exhausted people.

But in Catania, I encountered something very different.

A city that does not need filters.

A city that already understands life.

The Volcano’s Paradox

Walking along Via Etnea — the city’s main artery — you are constantly reminded of the hierarchy of power.

The street itself stretches like a ceremonial carpet toward the volcano.

On clear mornings, Etna appears sharp and majestic, its summit dusted with snow. On other days, it disappears behind dark clouds like a silent god observing the lives of three hundred thousand people below.

To outsiders, living beside one of the world’s most active volcanoes sounds psychologically unbearable.

You expect anxiety.

Tension.

Urgency.

But Catania is the exact opposite.

It is a city of the slow morning.

Nothing truly begins before nine.

Cafe shutters open lazily. Espresso machines hiss awake without urgency. The scent of coffee slowly competes with the faint sulphurous memory drifting from the mountain.

And somewhere inside this rhythm, I recognised a truth I had previously seen only in war zones and diplomatic crises:
Human beings cannot control external chaos.
They can only control their response to it.
Etna has buried this city before.
Destroyed homes.
Shattered lives.

Yet the same volcano also provides the rich volcanic soil that feeds southern Italy.

Etna is both threat and provider.

In intelligence terminology, she would be considered a high-risk asset that continues paying extraordinary dividends.

And perhaps that is why the people here seem calmer than most modern societies obsessed with certainty.

When you already live beside catastrophe, everyday stress loses much of its theatre.

Beyond the Godfather’s Shadow

It is impossible to discuss Sicily without confronting the mythology hanging over it.

The world remains hypnotised by the cinematic shadow of the Mafia.

The tuxedo.
The red rose.
The whispered threats.

And honestly, watching the commercialisation of the Cosa Nostra in Catania feels both fascinating and absurd.

Historically, the criminal structures here were very different from those operating in Palermo. The eastern Sicilian clans never fully achieved the same absolute dominance portrayed in films.

Yet step inside any souvenir store and you will immediately find walls covered in Marlon Brando magnets and Godfather merchandise.

The myth has become a product.

Tourists arrive searching for a safe version of danger — a cinematic “thrill” carefully packaged between espresso bars and refrigerator magnets.

It is brilliant marketing.

The locals sell the myth.

The deeper realities remain hidden beneath the surface.

In intelligence work, we call this misdirection.

The decoy always attracts more attention than the real operation.

The Zen of the Italian Traffic Jam

Eventually, I made my way toward the famous La Pescheria — Catania’s historic fish market.

To walk the streets of this city is to witness a masterclass in controlled chaos.

Italian traffic already operates according to mysterious laws unknown to the rest of humanity.

But Catania adds another layer entirely.

Scooters weave through impossible gaps. Cars drift past one another with millimetres to spare. Pedestrians casually crossroads that appear mathematically impossible to survive.

And yet something fascinating happens:
Nobody seems angry.
Drivers stop for pedestrians.
Nobody leans aggressively on horns.
Nobody screams.

The chaos somehow functions through an unspoken agreement:
“We are all trapped inside this madness together, so why make it worse?”

I even watched police vehicles participate in this strange social choreography with complete acceptance.

Authorities here seem to understand something modern societies often forget:
not every imperfection requires war.

In Catania, minor vehicle damage appears less like an accident and more like a cultural tradition.

Every third car carries scars:
dented bumpers,
scratched doors,
cracked mirrors.

Auto-body repair businesses in Sicily must struggle terribly.

If the engine starts and the wheels turn, the vehicle remains perfectly acceptable.

And strangely enough, I found wisdom inside that attitude.

Modern people spend enormous energy trying to preserve flawless exteriors:
their image,
their reputation,
their online identity.

But the Catanese seem to understand something much deeper:
A few scars do not stop the journey.

The mission continues regardless of cosmetic damage.

The Art of the Grift

As I approached the fish market, the atmosphere changed completely.

The air thickened with sea salt, fresh tuna, sardines, sweat, and the rhythmic shouting of vendors performing the ancient Sicilian vanniata — the theatrical selling chants of the market.

In 2023, I achieved the Guinness World Record for the longest continuous audio broadcast.

People often focus on the speaking.

But my real profession was always listening.

Observing.

Reading environments.

And crowded markets like this remain a predator’s playground.

The pickpockets operating here are not cinematic villains.

They are opportunists feeding on what I call “vacation brain” — that dangerous psychological state where tourists become distracted by excitement, architecture, photographs, and sensory overload.

The moment awareness drops; opportunity rises.

Allow me to share a few practical lessons from the field.

The Table Trap

Never leave your phone casually sitting on a café table.

Not for a moment.

Your phone is not merely a device anymore.

It is your bank account, your identity, your communication hub, your private life, and often your business itself.

Treat it the way professionals treat a sidearm:
Keep it secured.

The Wallet Reveal

Tourists often expose entire wallets publicly while counting cash.

From a security perspective, this is equivalent to conducting a financial presentation for nearby criminals.

Carry smaller transaction money separately.

Keep primary funds concealed.

And for the love of common sense: never use your back pocket.

To a skilled pickpocket, a back pocket is not security.

It is an invitation.

The Push Protocol

In crowded areas, be cautious of sudden physical contact.

The classic “bump” technique remains effective because human attention naturally follows confrontation.

You turn toward the person who bumped you.

Meanwhile, their partner accesses your valuables.

If you feel sudden pressure in a crowd, your hand should instinctively secure your belongings immediately.

The Moped Menace

Always watch the scooters.

They are not simply navigating traffic.

They are observing opportunities.

A scooter can mount a sidewalk, snatch a shoulder bag, and disappear through narrow streets before the victim fully processes what happened.

Wear bags cross-body whenever possible and position them away from the street.

Preparedness is not paranoia.

It is awareness.

The Sound of Silence

Standing inside the chaos of the La Pescheria surrounded by crimson tuna, silver sardines, and volcanic stone, I realised that Catania operates on a frequency many modern people no longer recognise.

It is the frequency of resilience.

This city has survived invasions, earthquakes, eruptions, poverty, political corruption, and organised crime.

And still, every morning, somebody opens a café, somebody catches fish, and somebody laughs beneath the shadow of the volcano.

Meanwhile, modern “gurus” charge thousands of dollars to teach manufactured serenity inside luxury retreats.

But the calm I saw in a Sicilian fisherman cannot be purchased.

Because resilience is not built in isolation from danger.

It is built beside it.

The mountain does not care about your affirmations.

The mountain simply exists.

And perhaps that is the lesson.

True resilience is not ignoring risk.

It is acknowledging danger while still choosing to live fully.

It is walking through a crowded market while remaining aware.

It is respecting the volcano while still drinking espresso beneath its shadow.

It is understanding that preparedness and joy can coexist.

As I looked back toward Etna, a small plume of smoke escaped from the summit — a quiet reminder of who truly governs this island.

I adjusted my bag, checked my surroundings, and continued walking.

The morning was only beginning.And somewhere inside the volcanic ash, there were still stories waiting to be uncovered.

  • This post was written by Mario Bekes

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