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If you think volunteering is just a polite hobby for people with too much spare time, you’ve never stood in the trenches of human struggle.
I’ve lived three lifetimes packed into one. I have survived a war, played the chess game of international diplomacy, conducted intense investigations, and built businesses from scratch.
Even so, of all the titles I have carried, none has demanded more grit, offered more raw reality, or given me more profound purpose than the one that doesn’t come with a pay check: volunteer.
There comes a benchmark moment in life when the noise of the world fades, and you realize a fundamental truth: Success isn’t measured by what you accumulate. It’s measured by what you contribute back.
We live in a world obsessed with accumulation. We collect degrees, job titles, frequent flyer miles, and bank balances.
From a young age, we are taught that the measure of a successful life is determined by what we manage to pull into our orbit.
But there comes a benchmark moment, usually after life has thoroughly knocked the wind out of you a few times—when you realize that success isn’t measured by what you accumulate.
It’s measured by what you contribute back.
I didn’t learn this lesson from a self-help book. I learned it across three lifetimes packed into one. I’ve lived through war, navigated diplomacy, conducted investigations, and built businesses from the scratch.
But the most challenging and rewarding title I’ve held is volunteer.
My introduction to volunteering wasn’t a choice. It was an obligation. In post-WWII socialist Yugoslavia, a country was rebuilding itself from the ashes through sheer collective will.
Back then, they were called “work actions.” We didn’t call it volunteering.
We just called it summer.
Legions of young people rolled up their sleeves and built highways, railways, and waterworks with nothing but shovels, wheelbarrows, and song. It was mandatory solidarity, and it taught my generation early on that you belong to something bigger than yourself.
Decades later, life brought me to Australia. The landscape changed, but the human condition remained the same.
While working in radio, I found myself drawn back to that collective spirit. I joined a group of volunteers spending nights out on the freezing pavement with the homeless.
If you want a quick cure for arrogance, spend a night on a concrete sidewalk. It changes you. It forces you to look into the eyes of a world we usually pass by on autopilot, pretending it isn’t there.
I’ve looked danger in the eye. I have survived a war and fought literal battles for my life. I thought I knew what fear was. I was wrong.
Nothing—absolutely nothing—prepares you for the moment your child becomes sick.
When my family faced the terrifying, unpredictable reality of epilepsy, the world shrank to the size of a hospital waiting room.
There is a unique, suffocating helplessness that every parent fears.
You sit in those sterile corridors, watching the blinking monitors, tormented by the endless, unanswerable loop: Why me? Why my child? You are furious because you are completely powerless.
But it was during those dark hospital nights that I noticed them: the volunteers.
They were ordinary people who quietly extended profound kindness, compassion, and humanity to complete strangers.
They didn’t have medical degrees to cure the illness, but they had the grace to hold a door, offer a warm cup of coffee, or just sit in the heavy silence with us.
That stays with you. It brands itself in your soul.
Ten years after experiencing that situation as a parent, I decided.
I walked through the doors of the Ronald McDonald House in Greater Western Sydney. I didn’t go because I had all the answers or because I felt uniquely qualified. I went because life had finally taught me the absolute importance of simply being there.
I will admit it openly: I walked in with a proud, confident smile, and I left with tears streaming down my face.
My assigned duties weren’t physically gruelling.
In fact, in those first few hours, I almost wished I were moving heavy boxes or scrubbing floors—because physical labour is an uncomplicated distraction.
The weight of this work is entirely emotional.
Walking into that house was like stepping into a time machine. Suddenly, I was looking at parents who were precisely where I had been a decade ago.
These parents are like superheroes, navigating through life with a smile on their faces. They carry a smile on their faces while enduring a deep, gnawing pain that most people cannot fathom—and frankly, shouldn’t have to.
And then, there are the children.
Children are magnificent because, despite everything, they remain children.
They are pleasant, full of stories, and laughing. They have a brilliant spark of life in their eyes that a hospital gown cannot dim. You long to join in their laughter, but your heart aches deeply.
It feels as though a beautiful, blossoming garden has been callously sprayed with weed killer.
Yet, they gaze up at you, share a joke, and inspire tears with their unwavering spirit.
In chatting with the parents, you quickly realize what sanctuaries places like the Ronald McDonald House truly are. Every bit of assistance is significant.
In our modern, fast-paced society, we love shortcuts. It is incredibly easy to whip out a credit card, donate $100 online, click “submit,” and move on with our comfortable day.
Financial support is critical to sustaining operations, but it is not the only thing that matters. But occasionally, the world requires more from us than just our spare change. It requires our presence.
“Life is valued not only by what we achieve, but also by how we help others.”
The impact of a caring volunteer extends far beyond what can be measured on a spreadsheet.
When you give your time, you are giving a piece of your life that you can never get back.
That is the highest form of currency.
Life has given me a masterclass through war, diplomacy, business, and investigative work.
But the most valuable lesson standing above the rest is simple: Sometimes the greatest strength in life is not taken; it is given.
I am deeply grateful for the opportunity to contribute, to learn, and to be a small part of an organization that brings comfort, hope, and light to families during their darkest storms.
If you are waiting for the perfect time to start giving back, or waiting until you have “enough” success to share, let me save you the years of searching.
The right time is now.
The most important legacy we can leave behind isn’t carved into a monument or written on a bank account. It is written in the quiet acts of kindness that help another human being make it through the next hour.
